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Are You Too Needy?

You may have heard people throw around words like "needy" and "clingy," almost always with a negative connotation. Having needs in a relationship is often frowned upon. Some self-help and relationship experts even go as far as suggesting that you should be able to...

What to Do When You Disagree on Political & Social Issues

If you're passionate about a particular social cause or political belief, chances are you find it really frustrating when a loved one can't understand your stance. Even more, being in a romantic relationship with someone who disagrees with your social and political...

6 Common Myths & Beliefs About Sex

When it comes to sex, what do you believe to be true? What thoughts do you have about it? What did you learn about it? Now consider: where did these beliefs come from? A lot of what we think we know about sex came from society, our parents, a broken sexual education...

Your Relationships Need You to Be Assertive: Here’s How

Hey, you: Stop. Being. Nice. Seriously, your relationships are depending on it. This doesn't mean you have to start being mean. But between being passive and aggressive, there's a sweet spot of assertiveness, and once you practice being assertive, you'll see just why...

Are You Settling for Less Than You Deserve?

I was recently asked, "Is it true that we accept the love we think we deserve?", a question inspired by a famous quote from The Perks of Being a Wallflower. While the simple answer is yes, I knew that this question required more time and explanation. After all, while...

Why People Play Mind Games in Dating & Relationships

Mind games are behaviors that lack authenticity, mislead someone else, and are typically used as a strategy. These games are confusing and often manipulative, and they can leave the other person feeling powerless and questioning the relationship and the other person's...